From Evolution of Desire. Men give love to get sex. Women give sex to get love. Improving appearance is twice as effective for women at keeping their mate.
Men over women are attracted to her touching her chest or pelvis to him, puckured lips, blowing kisses, sucking a straw or finger, or bending over to accentuate curves. Women judge men in more clothes as attractive.
Men seeking sex too soon upsets women, women withholding too long upsets men.
Most upsetting is sexual and physical aggression by men (but less upsetting depending on how high value she assesses him to be), but infidelity and verbal and physical abuse by women.
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